Friday, August 12, 2005

What about condoms and swinging?

The debate over condoms is no different in the swinging world than in the vanilla sex world. Guys don't like them - plain and simple. They will use them - if its that or nothing, but they don't like it.
As far as swinging with or without condoms goes, the issue is something each couple has to resolve and both of them have to be comfortable with it. If anything about the situation makes you uncomfortable, then you are not going to have a good time.
Condoms are worn out of fear and that's where they get the bad rap. Fear of pregnancy, fear of disease. I've never heard a guy say he wanted to wear a condom because he liked the way it felt. I'm told it's desensitizing. Of course, I wouldn't know, I don't have a cock.
I do know that I'm allergic to latex and standard condoms won't work for me. You want to take the fun out of screwing, have an allergic reaction to latex. Your pussy feels like it is on fire and itches.
If you carefully control the partners you swing with and keep that universe disease free, then I don't believe condoms are a necessity to prevent disease. Now as far as pregnancy is concerned, of course they are required. Once again, it's a decision that should be made as a couple and you both need to be comfortable with it.
What are your thoughts on swinging and condoms? Do you or don't you?