The First Time ..........

To say I was nervous the first time we were with another couple, is an understatement. I felt like a virgin on prom night who new she was going to lose her virginity. We made arrangments with "Ted" and "Diane" to meet in our room after dinner. This was their their first time, so the only experienced person in the room was my husband. Taking his lead, we showered and waited for them to get to the room, - we elected to just wait naked. We all knew what we were there for.
After they got there, we all set the ground rules for the evening. "Diane" wasn't sure she wanted a full swap situation and was going to decide that as she went. Then the condom issue was decided. Condoms are always a source of discussion in the swing universe. The reasons to use them are obvious, but some guys just hate them and it ruins it for them. What you have to do, is figure out what your comfortable with. If you are going to swing without condoms, then my recommendation is you only swing with couples who only swing with other monogamous couples. This creates a kind of group monogamy, if no one ever goes outside the circle to a single male - who may be exposed to more.
I'm not going to blow smoke here. The first time was awkard. I am very much a voyeur, so watching my husand with another woman was weird to say the least. It wasn't a jealousy kind of weird, just a weird - weird.
To be honest, "Ted" was great, but I certainly did not have an orgasm. "Diane" decided she wanted penetration, and she had a great time. She is the most orgasmic woman I have ever witnessed in real life, on TV or heard about. I'm not exaggerating when I say, I lost count somewhere around 20. That may have been part of my problem, I was definitely distracted by her apparent orgasmic ability. I thought I was multi-orgasmic at 3 - but she added new definition to the meaning for me.
They were a great couple and my husband and I had amazing sex after they left. Then I finall got a good orgasm. On the plus side, it was exhilirating to be with someone else, knowing that it was nothing more than sex and that it was ok. It was definitely something to try again. Tell us about your first swing experience?