Should we swing?

About a year after my husband first brought up the swinging couple from work, we went on vacation to a couples only resort. A couple times during that year I asked some questions about swinging .............the truth was I was really curious about the dynamics of how swinging really worked. Couples only resorts are a lot of fun. If you swing and if you don't. If you don't - the swinger couples totally respect it when you say no. I was totally comfortable in this environment because we had been there before. By nature I am a people watcher, so I had really been studying how the couples interacted. Some part of me wanted to experience what it was like. The other part of me was totally terrified. I definitely hadn't mentioned it to my husband yet. I didn't want to let him down when I changed my mind. There was a couple who we had been hanging out with a lot at the pool and at dinner. "Ted" was totally my type and very flirtatious. In my fantasies - I was already going there. Two nights before we were to leave, I told my husband that "if" we were ever to try swinging "Ted" and his wife would be a good couple to break the ice with. Well - that was all it took. My husband was not going to let this opportunity pass. The next to last night of our vacation - we took the plunge. On my next entry - I give you the details on what the first time was really like. How about you? How did you arrive at the decision to finally swing? OR if your just thinking about it - post your questions and we will try to get them answsered.