And the "Subject" came up ...................

Most couples don't just fall into the lifestyle. They make a decision that this is what they want to do or try. That is unless a lot of alcohol is involved and you wake up one morning with a bunch of your friends naked. I'm really not referring to that situation. In that one, I can't give you any advice (except you may want to reconsider your level of alcohol consumption) All couples who participate in the lifestyle, at some point decided that they wanted to try swinging. Which means that at some point the subject came up. I have met a few couples whom say that the idea was the womans. A greater number of the couples admit that the man is the one who initially brought the idea up. One thing I find - no matter who brought up the subject - the majority of the time once they are in the lifestyle, the woman spearheads it after that. Who they swing with, how often etc. Check back soon and I will have the story of how the subject came up with us.................................................. Who brought up the idea in your relationship?